Thursday, January 15, 2009

if you ever being dumped by your friend, read this


sometimes... you never know the actions you did have hurt other ppl...
sometimes... you never realise the words you said have hurt other ppl...

when they got hurt... they go away from you... they hate you...

you wonder why they go... why they become suddenly cold to you...
you wonder what went wrong... you wonder what did you do...

it hurts...
it hurts a lot...

you miss those times when you were together... the laughter, the smile, the warmth of the friendship... all that have been a basic support for you to live another day everyday...

but now... it is suddenly gone...

in a blink of an eye...


you try to apologise... but you're no longer forgiven...
you try to please them... but you're just being ignored...
you feel regret... you feel like a loser... you feel terribly lonely...

they tried to tell you what did you do... but you cannot recall the things you have said and done... or perhaps you're in the state of denial...

or worse, they never tell you what went wrong... they just remain silent and cold... it hurts deeper that way...

and now, all you can do is just look at them... watching how happy they are without you around...

you try to move on... pretend like nothing had happened... try to be strong... you to try to make new friends... perhaps you succeed... but the new friends are not the same... and it makes you suddenly feel lonelier than before...


all you can do now is just cry...






~we always feel regret after the lost... while we still having it, we never treasure it... we always take it for granted... until it goes away from us... and when we have realised our mistakes... it all will be too late to correct it.....

11 comments:

Puteri Ain said...

wah... macam cerpen pendek tapi 1001 maksudnye huhuuhu.....

manusia IAAR takkan faham ini walaupun dia bace... dia akan anggap DIA yang betul....

walaupun dah hilang kawan, DIA tetap kata kite berdosa....
teruk punye manusia yang pernah aku jumpa....

LoNeRanGEr said...

We alwiz see what others ppl do, but we didn't realized that sometimes we did the same thing….it’s deeply hurt when u’re forgiven but not forgotten…anyhow..Life must go on!!
This is we called ”asam garam pahit maung kehidupan”

whitelilies island said...

Puteri Ain:
yup..perhaps even till the end, she will never realise it..she maybe will never accept it..dia mmg akan camtu dan maybe akan selamanya camtu..terima je laa..ehehehe...

LoNeRanGEr:
that's why it is important to know the wrong things we did..so that we can try to improve ourselves..we're only human, born to make mistakes..but how about that person is too ego to accept his/her mistakes, and put the blame on others instead..
yeah..no matter whose fault is it..life must go on..no need to exaggerate the drama..what had happened, had happened anyway..

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Puteri Ain said...

LoNeRanGEr: THANK FOR COMMENT....

NOTHING TO SAY.... CUMA LEH CAKAP.... ORANG YANG MERASE LEBIH TAHU APA YANG DIA RASE DAN ORANG CAKAP BOLEH CAKAP APE PUN....

DAN TAK KISAH LA ORANG NAK CAKAP PE PUN....

JANJI I DAH BAHAGIA....

Helmi Razali said...

this is deep.

uetoAya said...

emm tu la pun!!mls nk komen..hahaha

whitelilies island said...

actually, i'm writing this blog not to tembak anyone..i just wrote this based on what i've experienced b4;
aku penah ditinggalkan kwn
dan
aku penah meninggalkan kwn

no i'm not ashame on confessing this..

we all have reasons on why such thing happened..why we were determined to make the decision..bak kata ain:

"ORANG YANG MERASE LEBIH TAHU APA YANG DIA RASE DAN ORANG BOLEH CAKAP APE PUN...."

pedih bile kena tggl kwn..i know the feelings..but take it as a point to review ourselves..kalo dah tau sbb much better la..tp kalo tatau, kite kena la muhasabah diri..sbb ade benda yg kite wat yg telah wat kwn kite terluka tanpa kita sedari..we're human so it's normal..not to worry..it's ok to grieve but as lonerager said:

"Life must go on!!
This is we called ”asam garam pahit maung kehidupan”"

cuma part yg tak best bile ade org yg taknak terima kesalahan diri dan hanya mahu put the blames on others..seboleh2nya dia mempertahankan dirinya tdk berslh, dirinya tlh ditindas..

i think bile kita tiba di situasi begini, kite patut abaikan sape yg slh atau btol..muhasabah diri, tu yg lbey penting..tanye diri sndri nape derang lari..n try to be a better person so that things like this will not occur again..

kwn adalah org yg plg nmpk kelemahan diri kita..dan mereka akn suke bile kite berubah ke arah kebaikan..bkn mmbuat kita bangga dgn kejahatan n kejahilan diri..

so adalah lbey baik kalo kwn kite tak puas ati ngan kita so derang blah, drpd kat dpn kita dia bkn main baik..sdgkan kat blkg mengata tak hengat..mmg saket tp itu la realiti kehidupan..

sekian, wasalam..

i love me said...

kawan2 bile dekat mmg sgt busuk. mulalah nk ngumpat. tak puas ati n nak cari pasal. mak aku berpesan, teruskan apa yg di depan mata. jgn berpaling ke blkg di mana memori ttg kejahatan itu terkumpul mengakibatkan diri sakit. cuma ambil memori yg manis buat bekalan. & jgn prnh menyesal mengenali beliau krna org sbgni yg tlh mengajar kau erti kawan!
ohhhlalalalala;)

Puteri Ain said...

ye tul jangan sesal sebab banyak ain erti KAWAN sejati tetapi untuk berkawan semula...

sangat susah... rasenye diri ini tak terlibat dengan DIA lagi...

maaf.... diri ku tidak bisa berbuat begitu...

hahahaha