Friday, February 13, 2009

quarter life crisis

i notice lately many of my frens have been or still be in this dilemma...

i tried to search on the net about this crisis.. this is wat i found.. the characteristics of the crisis:

  • feeling "not good enough" because one can't find a job that is at one's academic/intellectual level
  • frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career
  • confusion of identity
  • insecurity regarding the near future
  • insecurity concerning long-term plans, life goals
  • insecurity regarding present accomplishments
  • re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships
  • disappointment with one's job
  • nostalgia for university, college, high school or elementary school life
  • tendency to hold stronger opinions
  • boredom with social interactions
  • loss of closeness to high school and college friends
  • financially-rooted stress (overwhelming college loans, unanticipatedly high cost of living, etc.)
  • loneliness
  • desire to have children
  • a sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than you

read here to know more.

baru aku tau sbnrnye benda ni adelah satu crisis dlman diri seseorg.. i thot it was just me.. n of cos at that tym i thot i was not normal for acting+feeling+thinking unrationally..

sbnrnye, sume tu adelah normal ye kwn2... (^_^)

if u guys experience one(s) of those characteristics above, jgn takut n jgn risau.. kalo crisis tu adelah smthg yg tak teruk, korg leh solve sndri benda alah ni.. it's all depends on Ya' Ollz (aaa tlg! dah cam blog azwan ali.. hakhakhak)

ramai kwn2 aku yg ckp derang rs bosan dgn life derang skrg.. especially yg dah keje.. katanya asek kejeeeeee je.. cuti pn g opis keje..

ye, aku pn penah rs begitu.. rs bosan tu akan tiba jua no matter how much we really luv the job.. even if the job is our dream-job.. kebosanan tu ttp akan tiba jua.. pecayalah..

org akan ckp, why dont u change ur job.. maybe it will give u new point of view.. yup, gud idea.. but it is gud only to proceed in 2years back.. now with the recession is coming, sume org pn cam ketakutan utk carik keje lain.. it's a risk which is stupidly one could take at the moment...

but, kalo korg rs bleh.. proceed je la kan.. it's ur life, u decide...

my suggestion is muhasabah diri (ceehhh) and tanya diri sndri wat u really want in ur life.. tanya diri sndri ape yg korg suka buat n wat u can really come out with it.. so, instead of just loving it, why not u try to create smthg out of it.. tak kesah la benda tu achievement nye tak gempak pn smpi leh kasik kecoh satu dunia kan.. but at least u have ur own life achievement, u see.. smthg u can be proud of.. it will make u feel better about urself...

tanye diri sndri wat u want to do.. wat u can achieve with it.. plan for it.. n then go for it.. it's gonna be a motivation for u to live another day everyday...

consult with frens n families if u cant figure it out urself.. no one knows u better other than ur own circle of close ppl...

k, slmt mencuba! hohoohooo p('.')q

~dok sorg2 ngan bf kat tepi tasek sek2 smbl dgr radio n mkn mcflurry oreo mmg ade pekdahnye kdg2.. hahahahaa...


kueh bakar said...

bekerja memang boring..tak macam belajar...hari2 bende baru..bekrja? hari2 bende sama...

whitelilies island said...

hmm..wat past is past..we cannot be attached to the past or it will eat u nak tanak kena move on la kan..

cahaya said...

interesting la topik ni...mmg btol ada. aku pn mengalaminya...huhu

~ xoxo ~

whitelilies island said... jgn takut..sume tu normal ye..huhuuuhuuu...