Wednesday, October 13, 2010

annoying la wehh!!!!

aku tertarik dengan status seorang kawan aku di fb.. baru je update..

"kalau dah kawin je dikatakan BERJAYA, habis yang belum berkahwin ni ape? tak berjaya ke?

memang DASAR!"

adeh sedih betul bila bercakap dengan manusia sebegini.. shallow thinkers annoy me deym much! i can easily snap at people who are not thinking or acting rationally (and yeah, even to myself too if i do that!)

the benchmark of success is depend on individuals.. very subjective since human are unique.. thus, it is so not fair to simply judge and stamp on others just based on your personal benchmark.. different people lead different lives.. thus, it will also impact on the decisions they make..

so if you cannot understand why the choice has been made, then shut up.. jangan simply komen tak tentu hala tanpa memikirkan hati dan perasaan orang lain.. tanpa mengetahui perihal yang sebenar..

listen more, talk less.. only then you will understand..

if you really want that person to change and lead a better life, doa pada Allah minta diberikan hidayah padanya.. minta ditemukan jodohnya dengan segera.. minta dimurahkan rezeki yang melimpah ruah untuknya.. kan lebih baik? instead of you condemning and make that person feel like a loser.. for what? to please your own ego? riak.. tak baik tau!!

demmit.

aku tau kawan aku tu sedang menangis sekarang.

harap2 dia kuat.

2 comments:

bintangbicara said...

Dah kahwin diorang ingat hidup dah lengkap GILA.

Kasihan.

whitelilies island said...

kesian kan? so shallow.. huh