different ppl have their own definition of friendship i guess... best friend... it's not easy to find, but once you found one, you hope your best friend will always be with you be it while you are happy or sad...
many ppl say in life, there are only few ppl you will call best friends out of many friends that you have... i can consider myself lucky since so far, everywhere i go, i will get new best friend(s)... so my collection of best friends are growing (hahaha... collection???)... they are the ppl who always be by my side in various situations that i ever encountered... and hopefully they will always be... [^_^]
i always refer my life as "my love life sucks, but i'm blessed with great friendships"... heh... (-_-")
some ppl might wrongly interpret the friendships btw me n some of my best frens... why? i dont have the slightest idea about it... some say, everywhere i go, she/he will go too... some say, she/he will decide on the same option as i will make... ok, done with the examples...
i really dont get it ok... my best friends and i always respect each other... respect each others' personalities and lives as well... we are very different ppl... the thing that bring us together is whether we have the same passion on smthg, or because we are really comfortable with each others' companion... or both, which is depends on many constraints and variables...
that is why i have many best frens who are:
3. married with child / children
5. engaged going to get married soon
6. in a relationship
all of them are doing great with their own things... and live happily, or at least try to live as happy as they can be... heh...
the point here is, btw me and my best frens, there will not be such as...
"gosh, she's getting married so i must get married too"
"she's already pregnant? i must get pregnant too"
"she's been promoted, so i must kipas my boss so that he/she will accelerate my promotion process"
"my bes fren is in a relationship already. i want to get a bf too. anyone can la, dont mind. i'm desperate"
"i must get married before she does"
"i must be more stylo / look more beautiful than my best fren"
DUUUHHHHHH!!!! sooo NOT me ok??!! i wont give a damn about it... i mean of cos i give a damn on every updates about my best frens, but i wont be envious at all... why should i anyway... it's their lives and they are going to be happy/happier with the new things happen in their lives, so of coz i am happy for them...
if my bes frens are much more beautiful than me, i'll be damn glad to have a beautiful ppl as bes frens... i cant see why i should be envious... cos i'm also beautiful in my own way... everyone does... cos beauty is very subjectives... the definition will be varied according to the eyes which are looking... rite?
the funny thing is, there are some ppl who claim that i'm their best fren... but what they had done to me is so unforgivable and unforgettable... if they are really my best frens, they will understand me and wont do such stupid thing which can create a major misunderstanding over smthg which is very simple... and they wont easily judge me over an issue, without even confronting me for the truth...
i hate it... it hurts me deep... and it's disgusting...